Ki-tae is interviewed in his home, where he discusses his love of his house. He says he was once alone here as a child and this is why he loves to be alone here now. The ringing turns to pounding as Ki-tae adds, almost angrily, that now he wants to be with that girl. We rejoin Ki-tae and Jang-mi just as he opens the bottle of wine, and Jang-mi suggests that they date casually, without marriage in mind. She suggests they keep things secret from their parents, at least until she gets a job and his clinic is back in business. Jang-mi says that this time she wants to be a proud daughter and a good wife to him, and Ki-tae grins. Dude, you earned that snarl.
I find that refreshing in story terms, since mostly in dramaland it's usually the one being cheated on that hangs on with all they have. I'm glad they clearly showed it was the Dad hanging on as well. I agree that too often they show the one being cheated on as the person clinging desperately to the relationship.
I had an inking of what Dad's character was like when he mentioned that it would help his career promotion chances if Gi Tae ended up with Se Ah, but it was crystal clear in this episode and I think it will go a long way in helping Gi Tae find some understanding with his mom.
I swear, if Ki-tae would simply change his passcode, half the bad things that happen in this drama wouldn't happen LOL. Haha, but I'm actually glad this happened. I've had a feeling for a while now that a later episode would end with Ki-tae's mom walking in on them and it's one of those turns that I weirdly still enjoy despite the fact that I expected it all along.
Aug 17, Marriage Not Dating: Episode 14 by LollyPip. It's an episode full of frustration for poor Ki-tae, both emotionally and physically, as he learns about life as the boyfriend of a successful entrepreneur. He and Jang-mi both learn a little about how important it is to communicate honestly, and I can only say thank goodness, it's about time/5. Marriage, Not Dating Episode 14 Sebuah komedi romantis tentang seorang pria yang tidak ingin menikah dan seorang wanita yang sungguh-sungguh ingin menikah. Gong Ki Tae adalah seorang dokter bedah plastik yang sukses yang terus mendapatkan tekanan dari keluarganya untuk menikah tapi semua yang ia inginkan adalah untuk hidup sendiri dalam damai. Marriage, Not Dating - Episode 14 | Rakuten Viki. How do you get your meddlesome family off your back? If you're Gong Gi Tae (Yeon Woo Jin), you give your family what you know they would never accept. Gi Tae is a confirmed bachelor who has no interest in getting married, but he faces tremendous pressure from his family to settle down.
I know that this situation is particularly bad because Jang-mi literally just told her there was nothing between them, but given the way Ki-tae very effectively cleared Jang-mi of all misunderstandings this episode Go him! In fact, I'm actually so excited. I loved how this episode dealt with Ki-tae's and Jang-mi's growing relationship and the importance of communication : In fact, the show is doing such a wonderful job of exploring the issues that new relationships bring, that I almost wish it had gotten here a little sooner even though I've actually thoroughly enjoyed the pacing.
But, all in all, I think this drama is on track to having perfectly satisfying final episodes next week. There's just enough conflict left to balance out cute with some nice emotional payoffs and I have faith that this drama can accomplish this wonderfully. But seriously.
I really don't want this drama to end and that's a very unusual sentiment for me. It wasn't even that embarrassing for either of them because they were both acting ridiculous. So, together, they ended up just being an adorable pair. Ki-tae's dancing. Too cute. Also Hoon- dong's "You can't see me? I loved how Ki-tae was willing to go at Jang-mi's pace and how he supported her even though she was working with Yeo-reum. All the dynamics of their relationship were wonderful to watch play out this episode because everything they did came from the right place.
Jang-mi wanted a "cool" relationship precisely because, more than ever, she wanted things to work out with Ki-tae. And he was so focused on trying to be understanding of her and not to pressure her, that he didn't realize that just because she says she wants them to act "cool" doesn't mean that he needs to stop trying to convince her they should become more than that. This is perhaps why their conversation at the end is one of my favorite moments of them by far because they were dealing with such a real relationship issue.
When you try so hard to accommodate the other's needs, or don't want someone to worry about you, you only really end up with unnecessary distance between the So I loved how they openly talked through their struggles and reevaluated their relationship. It was really lovely to watch them both work so hard so that they could feel proud next to each other. I especially loved how Ki-tae was willing to get interviewed by a bunch of strangers in his apartment!
He really has come such a long way. Really, the main reason they had such a hard time communicating was simply because they were working so hard all of the time. Ki-tae was so hot and cute and funny when he told Jang-mi he wanted to do more than sleeping. Like seriously. How does he do that?! I was laughing and swooning all at once. I swear, in so many ways, aesthetically Yeon Woo-jin is not my type.
And then they were just too funny and adorable on top of that!!! Why do I only get 2 more episodes of them? This drama has been the death of me since the first week of airing. All your observations were on point and even though dad was a douche His tiny scene still moved the plot and story along so well.
The thing I really agree with from lollipip is yr. His sudden change in attitude made no sense from the beginning. Seha I can see her turning since she always wanted to be my kt side even as a friend so helping with his business made a ton of sense.
You made such great points, Chandler! I totally agree with you about YWJ, too!
At first, he was not really my ideal type in looks when it came to Korean actors. But he has truly grown on me and made this character so absolutely lovable. I totally overplayed the last scene between the OTP so many times. How can any person deny Gi Tae's request when he looks so hot and delicious asking for it? Thanks for the recap, LollPip! I've been waiting for it all day and for my chance to squee over this episode.
Totally agree about YWJ too, he's hilarious! I loved that scene of him and Hoon Dong also consistently hilarious dancing away like little dorks. I also can't help laughing every time Ki-tae looks up and instantly deflates when Se Ah enters a room, and she just kind of comes in with that sort of half resigned, hey whaddaya gonna do look - I swear that must have happened like ten times by now!
I was actually going to say something about this! I think it's hilarious how at least once per episode lately, there will be a scene where Ki-tae is either waiting for Jang-mi or for patients etc.
Like, it's happened so many times in a row now and for some reason I find it really funny. Chandler: wow Chandler dear. I still can't get over it It's good that both don't beat around the bush to get what they want hahah. It's nice to see something different for a change in korean dramas!
They kill me every episode but esp this time when they coincide with GT's dance moves. And oh the dancing! From both GT and HD!! So cute!
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GT really sees how JM's is looked down on by his family. And also he finally as well as me sees how his parents relationship truly is as well as his dad.
So skeazy. Its way worst that he got married with adultery preplanned. From their open dialogue to their cute little moments to the mom walking in to a pretty evident scene. And with the cherry on top JM walks out in GT's t-shirt JM's dad left with side stitches.
I really thought it would be a cute heartfelt letter! But I loved that it wasn't! The crazed awkward laughing scene at the restaurant was such an obvious moment where JM was trying to be "cool" and failing miserably.
These were just some highlights of mine but it was such a fun hour watch!! So sad i have to wait a week for more of these two and to see how exactly his mom handles the situation she walked into!!
But, if 20 years from now, I walk into his home and see women's clothes strewn all over, I'm turning around and running right back out and pretending I don't know anything. What mom stands around and waits to see who comes out of the room so that everyone can die of awkwardness? Boundaries, lady! That's why you and your son have so many issues as it is For the first time ever I'm watching, not one but two shows that have stayed funny even through the angsty parts. This show is so super hilarious.
Why is that man allowed to walk around being so very beautiful? That's a crime, right? I realize that I've never actually watched any of his shows, though?
Can he act? The little snippet I saw here was not very promising. Oh sorry, meant to mention, the other one is Fated To Love You. Even in the really sad episodes a couple of weeks ago they managed to introduce some levity and they bounced back quickly after some necessary angst.
I'm the Mom of a grown daughter, and I would never just stroll into her apartment without calling, let alone knocking! So rude. And potentially awkward And if you did walk in someone else's house and there were intimates strewn across the floor, the least you could do would be to call out so that they have warning that someone is there so they don't do something like wander out with no panties on in front of their secret boyfriend's mother. This is the first one that I thought actually stayed light and funny throughout except for that one episode, but I can forgive because it went right back to the funny.
Even when it has me feeling sorry for the leads, I'm still laughing. This is good.
I'm stoked for the last two episodes now, and I just love that we finally get to see Jang-mi and Ki-tae be boyfriend and girlfriend. When it's just the two of them on screen, it feels like a completely different show. I enjoy watching their honesty with each other and their cuteness, of course. They have been such an awesome pairing. I agree with you on Se-ah and Yeo-reum not really getting their comeuppance.
So they are just two gorgeous people who meddle in multiple people's lives and they get to be nice, caring friends at the end? If that's what the writer wanted from the beginning, for everyone to be nice and cheerful with each other, then why bother making those two characters go down the road of desperation in the first place? It's like the writer couldn't make up their mind and just tried things. That is my only gripe with this show now. I'm sad Mom was again lied to just when she was warming up to Jang-mi again.
Marriage, Not Dating Episode 14 Recap. Watch Now. Ki-tae is interviewed in his home, where he discusses his love of his house. He says dating was once alone here as a child and this is why he loves to be alone here now. The ringing turns to pounding recap Ki-tae adds, almost angrily, that now he wants to be with that girl.
I can't even fault her for her impending coldness because it is justifiable this time around. I'm waiting for this drama to wrap up nicely and give all the characters I like and love their deserved ending. Yesss ive commented on ep 13 about how i cant believe that were given such a sweetheart version of yeoreum just an episode after he deliberately hugged jangmi just for gitae's mom to see!
Like, as a viewer i cant believe he could work with jangmi with no other motive and in ep 13 i thought he wasnt gonna keep his word and seduce jangmi but this ep he was such an angel. Doesnt make sense! Se ah is still acceptable bc technically she was helping gitae and she doesnt care about jangmi. But yeoreum?
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I know people change but at least make it like hoon dongs progression. I can't help but wonder what comeuppance HYR deserved in all honesty. I would hardly call what he did meddling.
He was courting, rightfully so, a single woman who had shown an interest in him. Yes, hugging her deliberately in front of Gi Tae's mom was a bit a douchey, but it was also a human thing to do. He didn't premeditate it, it was a split second decision and a really desperate one at that.
The girl he had been courting and was showing a legitimate interest in and up until that point was doing the same, suddenly says she is no longer interested after he opened up to her. Yeah I can imagine in the grand total of 30 seconds after hearing that he was like "Oh that's cool, no biggie". Why such a double standard? I don't see how he is any better? Just because he ended up with her? It' not like HYR was fabricating the truth.
They had been dating. The situation was already there, he just bought it to light in a ill manner. I actually enjoyed the fact that the writer took this route. Sometimes in life you got to learn to bow out gracefully and I like that eventually both second leads came to that. They learnt they can be bitter and manipulative and alienate the people they care about just because a person does not reciprocate ones feelings does not make this null and voi or they can accept it and support them.
God isn't it nice to see people being mature? I think it was appropriate character growth and not so out of the realm of possibility. Too many people seem to have the lead couple bias. Plus why the need for blood? The lead couple is happy and amazing. I think losing the ones they care about is comeuppance enough.
Why the need for more suffering? Lol sometimes I read these comments and I am like have we been watching the same show. He has always been cool and casual about him and JJM's relationship, no matter how emotionally invested he was.
He is going to be cool and casual about if after. Because thats the kind of person he has, is and will be. How many guys would not make a huge fuss about someone they are basically dating kissing another guy.
Not too many. How many guys would be like ,"Yeah go ahead and be fake engaged with little or no explanation to how its beneficial to you or me, sure thing sweetpea". She said he liked him he took her word for it. She said he was no longer interested he had his moment and carried on. I think the reason why he acted like that, because well know HYR has huge abandonment issues. In that moment I think he was confronted with that and so he reacted harshly. I think he has been given a personality of his own and the show has been consistent with that.
He doesn't want to be lonely and gets attached to things, but he also knows life goes on. He learnt that after his mum left, he practiced it after him JJM were over. He is not going to stomp his feet and scream and make a huge deal about it. He has always had a moral compass, returning the money after JJM found it about him spying, paying for the truffles, generally using only expired ingredients and paying GGT back for his loan.
He is not going to try and hit on someone who he respects and admires like GGT's woman. It's not in his nature. Correct me if I am missing something, I rarely rewatch episodes, but I don't think HYR's character lacks progression at all. She said she was no longer interested he had his moment and carried on. I read the recaps and the subsequent comments which left me baffled. What did Yeo reum do that was so wrong? Are we watching the same drama, here?
If anything, Jang mi and Yeo reum were the ones legitimately dating, and I can 't count the number of times Gi Tae sabotaged their dates and even kissed Joo Jang mi when she was still dating someone else. The fact that Jang mi and Gi Tae ended up together doesn't excuse his actions.
If you want to get technical about it, you could even accuse Jang mi of two timing her boyfriend Yeo reum, who was being remarkably patient with Jang mi's and Gi Tae's 'fake' relationship. If anything, the ones who need their comeuppance in this drama are the lead couple.
Don't get me wrong, I ship Gi Tae with Jang mi more than anything and think they make a cute and lovely couple. But I'm not wearing any blinders or developing selective amnesia just because they are the main leads who everyone wants to end up together!
I really like the way you lay down the way and why YR acted the way he did things. How did Hoon Dong, the boss, end up peeling onion for Yeo-reum's restaurant?
I think he's bored at his own restaurant. I think it was more to gossip to jm about how kt is doin since. Which is a type of reversal in of itself. Whereas the women's friendship has the element of men's in most shows. HD, clearly cares about his friend a lot, even accepting that his friend might be gay, even after dating all those women.
Also, dancing with him. Anyone else notice that her bra left on the couch was white but she was clearly wearing a black bra - you could see it under her white shirt I didn't notice the bra but I counted how many underwear and shorts there were and I kept seeing one too many pair.
Well, it wasn't Jang Mi's first nite at Gi Tae's. Can we assume that she had spare clothing stashed there? I would think the black bra was much series then the one on the couch. I love the resolution to last episode's cliffhanger. He didn't pout nor beg; just simply asked, "Whoever said anything about marriage?
I thought the events would unfold with Ki Tae accepting Se Ah's job offer; then because his clinic closed down, Hoon Dong's restaurant would have no customers, so he would go work at the bar; then because Se Ah's hospital is close to the bar, they would all hang out there like Cheers. I felt proud seeing him study because he finally stopped waiting around for Jang Mi while she played aloof.
I cheered at his snide remark about her always being sleepy every time she is around him. Is their bar 24 hours? Her constant falling asleep was so inconsiderate of his feelings. I could feel their awkward silences through my computer screen. Couples usually run out of things to talk about years into their relationship, but they just started dating. That is not a good sign. Thank goodness they were back to their Chatty Cathy selves after dropping the "cool" act.
I don't see anything wrong with Mom catching them, other than the embarrassment for both parties. But this is a good way for her to realize they are together and are serious with each other. Where in the world did Hyun Hee get the money to open a bar? Thanks for the recap, LollyPip! I think her constant falling asleep was partly meant to show how comfortable she was around him. I don't really think she was that inconsiderate a little bit, yes because she obviously treasured the moments she got to sleep on his shoulder and even sited it as her reason for being able to work so hard.
Also I don't think they necessarily ran out of things to say, but that they simply had to make it through that awkward friends-to-lovers transition. When you think about it, they've never really gone through the "how do I impress this person" stage because they moved directly to the "I can be myself around this person" stage as soon as they met. So now that they're dating, it's almost like they felt the need to go back to the stage they missed because now they care what the other person thinks.
It actually shows how much they've come to respect each other. They just needed to mess up a bit first to see that the reason they wanted to be together in the first place was because they had a relationship in which they could be themselves. I like this one because it's essential in order to make a relationship works in the long run. This is what makes their relationship extra special and meaningful.
Even when she intends to appear good in front of him, she can't help but shamelessly fell asleep on their date. Granted she's just too tired working at the restaurant which is fine an excuse.
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Though I find it absurd and frustrating, I like it that she can do that comfortably around him. Oh, no - it's accurate. Opening your own business - especially a restaurant where you're running at full speed for hours at a time - is exhausting and stressful.
Until you've toughened up a bit, you're going to be doing nothing but working and sleeping. I think the stress of opening her own business and the fact that she was so comfortable with Gi Tae was why she kept falling asleep on him. As for her mom, frankly, I don't think she cares where Jang mi spends the night. Remember what Jang mi told Gi Tae, both parents were so busy working and spend their nights in seperate rooms so when she woke up she hardly ever saw her parents, they were like strangers living in the same house.
It was only when Gi Tae was with them, that they made an effort to appear as a family. She probably didn't even notice that Jang mi sleeps elsewhere. As for Jang mi, the atmosphere at home must be toxic, and she would probably like to avoid that as much as possible.
The thing is, she could have chosen napping during those times, but instead she chose going on dates with him. And what's a boyfriend for if not for lending a shoulder in time of need?
I do understand her reasons for falling asleep and Ki Tae was more than sympathetic, but I still felt hurt on his behalf. To compare, when students fall asleep in class, there are a number of reasons homework, studying, part-time jobs, partyingbut to the professor, they can't help feeling it is because their lecture is boring. On the park bench, she fell asleep in the middle of his sentence, so niggling at the back of his mind would be he is not interesting enough to keep her awake.
He didn't say "you're always sleepy whenever you see me" maliciously he said it in a nice tonebut I liked it because it showed he noticed and he was bothered by it. The ost my han groo was such a pleasant surprise. From now on. Kdrama is changed forever. Coz that's what we want. Oh, and this particular mother-in-law is so human, I just want to hug her. I say do away with them all. It seems like the writer is panicking that YR got lots of haters due to his jealous antics so the sudden transition is a way to win back our affection for him but not me because I never care about him anyway.
Also what's so wrong with second leads being evil all the way to the end? It's not like it never happens in real life. In real live normal people give up their unrequited loves pretty fast and move on - lots of other fish in the ocean. If they don't, it's called obsessive tendencies and they ether become addicts, seek a therapist or, unfortunately, buy a gun and show up at the ex's door. All rolled into one with a complicated revenge plan. U can most likely check them on the mnd wiki page or Asianwiki.
The show is killing it for the paid cable ratings but I think it still falls short to reply That 3. I can't count how many times I've replayed this episode. I love the honest conversation and all conversation Jang Mi-Gi tae had. They looked so real and it reflected how a normal couple looked like. How come Yeon Woo Jin's voice is so soothing every time he speak? Love this show to pieces. HD and GT's interactions always kill me. HD had a douchy past but deep down he's just a kind hearted manchild.
Their friendship is so endearing because both are honest to each other and understand each others weaknesses. Everyone is finally on the hoon train with me. I like that even though he looks ridiculous he still plays out his roll. HD is the best comic relief in a kdrama in a long time. Seriously that actor and Yeon Woo Jim have the best reaction expressions! That coupled with the sound effects make this drama so fun to watch. Total WWE fan here. That "you can't see me" thing was a reference to John Cena, and I just love it when K-dramas make references to things I know and love here in the U.
That was a totally cute scene. If looks could kill - Han Yeo Reum would be dead!! Those side eyes he was getting from Mama Gong when she visited the restaurant were lethal. She most definitely is NOT a fan! And neither am I! I thought he was a turd for all his interactions with my favourite couple - from him conceitedly informing Jang Mi that girls usually ask for him and not Ho Doong at the restaurant 1st episode up to wheedling a bunking arrangement with Jang Mi after being kicked out from the restaurant and everything else beyond.
He progressed into a low-down turd with that intentional hug in front of Gi Tae's mom, calculated to draw bad blood between Jang Mi and Mom without any benefit to anyone, himself included, with the fall out rippling through both families leaving heartaches everywhere. I assume this was product placement same as the billboard for Restylane that is crowding his desk. Ugh, PPLs. They make me laugh. As do integral scenes in dramas where they force the actors to speak English.
I thought the cleaning device was hilarious! She got a smooth skin from it, that's some considerate bf He was speaking mostly Korean in Potato Star. But he was playing a foreigner so his character had an accent and would often mix words up.
I'm getting a very Coffee Princey vibe from this show, especially these last few episodes. They remind me of when Han-kyul and Eun-chan finally start dating and then the whole I want to be a woman worthy of you business came up. Also, the leads are so relaxed with one another it also feels like Coffee Prince. Oh yeah totally agree I also got coffee Prince vibes coz of how comfortable and relaxed the leads are together.
Thank you for what you wrote about the second leads because I completely agree. I don't applaud all the writer's choices for their characters, but I don't feel like they simply went from Bad to Good, especially Yeo-reum. The one bad thing he did the hug was his breaking point and an understandable one considering the fact that he had to watch the girl he was dating fall for someone else right in front of him.
He felt bad about being petty in that moment and has since backed off. He's probably helping now because he feels bad about what he did.
I agree about Se-ah too, while still thinking that her character should have been written waaaay differently. I agree with your comments on Yeo-reum, not so much on Se-ah's. I think she has finally come to terms that she can't coerce Ki-tae away from Jang-mi but that doesn't mean to me that she's back to being a supportive friend. I'm not sure if she ever WAS a real "friend.
Right now I see her actions as continuing to be manipulative and opportunistic, just not in the same blatant way. I think she's gone back to hanging back and wait for the first sign of trouble from Ki-tae's relationship to try to weasel her way in.
The easiest way to do that is to stay close and oh! How lucky for her! Ki-tae's clinic is doing poorly and it's already been established that her dad has wanted Ki-tae to work for him. I think she MIGHT have felt something resembling shame after she laid everything out to Ki-tae and he still rejected her but since she never truly seem to be remorseful of her spiral into insanity I guess that's the Catch, you can't be crazy if you recognize yourself to be crazy?
I don't buy that she's repented and just being a good friend now.
As a person who really thought Se Ah was the craziest second lead female ever with the sperm thing, I agree with you. I actually liked what they did with her character because what makes me crazy about these types of second female leads is that they make them so crazy and desperate that I don't understand them.
Se Ah in beautiful, rich, successful, and smart. This is true for almost every second female lead like her. I have never understood how we are supposed to believe that women like them consistently fall a part forever when a man they love leaves them. She did her bit and took a ride on the crazy train. Who doesn't after a break up?
She makes her last stance and then she releases him. The two of them breaking up was not only good for Gi tae but robably good for her, too, in the long run. She has the potential not to be crazy, but she would have stayed that way if her tactics had worked. She is a smart woman all the advice she gives to Gi tae is spot onso I am happy to not see another smart remember she is a doctor, too fall apart permanently.
Now it is time for Gi tae's mom to get a divorce! I think part of the crazy is not unrealistic for her. She realized she needed to back off, but she's been there for years. And when you hang onto something and wait for it for years, letting go takes a little bit of crazy, not unlike. She waited and waited and then watched it all fall apart in just a matter of weeks. Even the crazy sperm thing was part keeping a connection and hoping it turns into something more, and part keeping at least some parting gift of the person she loved.
It's not like the leads who have just met someone and become inexplicably obsessed with making them theirs. I think those kinds of leads are mostly chalked up to women with such huge superiority complexes that losing to anyone they think is inferior is just impossible to let slide. Wow, I ended up with so many cut off sentences. I meant "her not letting go so easily is not unlike the lead's parents. Each pair has been together so long that even though it's basically been over for years the death throes are still ugly.
I found it quite realistic. It's just a the whites of her eyes and it brought a very natural felt to those scenes.
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I give her props cause I can't fake that I've really enjoyed Jang-mi and Ki-tae these past two episodes. Up until this week I felt like the show hadn't given me enough reasons to root for this pairing except for the fact that I was "supposed to. Thank you! Finally I can enthusiastically root for these guys! Nothing is sexier than knowing your partner wants it as much as you! My only real complaint about the recap is you bunching Se-ah and Yeo-reum together as the confusing "Bad-guys turned Good-guys.
There was no reason to believe that except for dramaland's trustworthy ability to make important events happen coincidentally at the same time. Se-ah is just crazy times and she's honestly just a scary, scary crazy person - I think she's not become nice, I think she just still being manipulative and opportunistic to get close to Ki-tae. Yeo-reum, on the other hand, has made a lot of mistakes but at the end of the day I've never doubted that he's always felt affection towards Jang-mi after getting to know her and the same regarding Ki-tae.
He had a moment of selfishness in front Ki-tae's mom but I think that by now he's realized it's game over. The three of them became a little family while the two boys lived together so it makes sense he wants to take care of his family, even if it's not what he might want for himself.
Can you tell me guys how can I get over with this drama? It's ending next week and as much as I want to see a happy ending, I also don't want to let go my nemo couple yet.
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I'm practically obsessed that I stalk all blog sites where this is recapped, videos on yt, tweets abt it and forums. Good thing there would be a tvN awards by the end of the year, I'm excited to have my feed of Jang Mi and Gi Tae again :.
Yeo-reum gave up somewhere after Jang Mi smacked down boundaries on his butt. After the hug, they had that falling out. And to reverse expectations, the writer let the characters do their own thing. That included making Yeo Reum stand on his own two feet.
That was her moment of change. In another words, the writer chose self-respect for the secondary leads over hanging on indefinitely, which is what real people do. You can see that was the theme of the last few episodes, because at the top, it played it for drama, but when you got there, the change in music and acting They were not the same cuts you found that the scene was not so dramatic, and it was more about self-respect than it was about drama and conflict.
Preserving the veneer. The writer has been doing that a lot throughout the series, playing with the drama tropes and doing reversals. For example, JM says she doesn't want to be a Cinderella in this episode. KT is actually shown working and working hard No telescopes-and the writer has made a point of it that they met up after he works or on weekends-such as when JM had to make pancakes and he couldn't show up to rescue her as the drama trope called for.
Instead of the drama lovey-dovey scenes, you see JM sleeping on all of the dates. Even the last few previews have been playing with the expectation of the viewers to be to that stereotypical drama standard and then pulled a reversal by showing they had recut everything to be different. Last episode they pulled a "Let's set up Big misunderstanding" and it turned on its head and became a confession.
So, this time the secondary leads get self-respect, but it's admittedly a subtle hand the writer pulled. I also thought the first time I watched this episode. The fact she wasn't uptight over it, echoed the words she said later about leaning on him.
Also, it was a reversal of a type as well, because you expect lovey dovey scenes now that they are together, but instead, she's falling asleep, which adds a bit of undercutting and realism.
The beginning scene seems to remind us that what seems to be the surface isn't the truth. So the secondary leads choosing self respect not only follows their character traits, Though sometimes the I gotcha in the series leaves me groaning a little.
It's one thing to reverse expectations, but then it's another to completely do something so unexpected that it makes the viewer wonder when and where the characters got personality transplants. I feel like that was what happened. I like the point you said about how Se-ah and Yeo-reum chose self-respect and -preservation. That makes a lot of sense and fits with their initial characterizations. The problem is that the transition between the two sides was lost. One episode, Se-ah's a raging lunatic, the next she is back to being Ki-tae's best friend.
One episode, Yeo-reum pulls a dick move, the next he and Jang-mi are co-owning a restaurant. It's fine if they are nice now, but for me, I would've just liked a scene where they realized they did wrong and apologized to the people they wronged.
Something as simple as that would've made all this cordiality in this episode that more believable. But because that didn't happen, I'm left to wonder why. The point about this episode is a cool relationship.
And thats what make this drama so appealing, because they skip all the cliches and cheesy lines. In YeoRum case,Jang Mi has asked him, how to keep it cool, like nothing happened between them, YeoRum answered, actually he is not cool, he just act like one. YeoRum likes JangMi. But, he admit that Gi Tae deserves Jang Mi better. As Se Ah, I think, her transition happened when Gi Tae force her to leave with him at the end of episode She realized that forcing the relationship will just make her become more pathetic.
I still remember clearly what he did to JangMi. Exactly what I was trying to point out. Thank you. The line where she said she would become pathetic. Good re-enforcing point on YR too. He was always a coward actually stated in the showbut it's clear that his model of women is not that stable. He chose someone like his mother who is far more assertive than Jang Mi ever was. He's kinda an M Japanese definition of one. It's just at the time you saw it, you thought it was because he was being a jerk and burning JM, but then over the course of the show, they pulled a few things that made it clear he's really a puppy in disguise.
The first was the reversal. When JM became more assertive, he liked that and was attracted to her more. The second is Hyeon Hee acting all soft and then turning around and acting much like his mother. It's clear on some level what he didn't have with JM was what he wanted-an assertive woman who chased after what she wanted.
So this clearly showed the reason he ran away from JM was because he's a coward and he didn't want to tell her that he never really liked her that much because he hadn't discovered his type was a reflection of his mother, and he's a coward through and through. But lit professors when they talk about Korean lit, seem to treasure and highlight that the most about Korean lit. Also the long separation Thanks for recap. Very sad coz this show is going to finish.
My forever otp ever I'm sooo happy with this show Kitae and Jang Mi are so good for each. YWJ and HG did justice to their roles. Two more episodes left I'm so excited for that. An annoyed Jang-mi gulps not wine and starts to marriage, but Ki-tae offers recap take her home.
She declines and gives him a marriage smooch, which buys her time dating leave while he stands there all twitterpated. The next episode, Ki-tae literally recap into work, where the nurses tell him that the blogger deleted all her negative comments. Not even the original that there are no patients on the schedule yet can get him down, and he boogies off to his office. Hyun-hee runs Hoon-dong ragged with her ever-changing dating, and his dating criticizes him for becoming a slave to his wife.
She turns on Hyun-hee next, to take her to task for taking up marriage best restaurant table for studying, and calls them both immature. She refuses to not them anymore and demands rent on the restaurant. He breezily says that he just wants her as a business partner, and she relaxes and asks him if he thinks Ki-tae will be okay with them working together. She asks him for advice on how to be in a cool relationship, but his advice is to end it.
Since Ki-tae likes she, Yeo-reum doubts he can be cool about it. Jang-mi suggests they do dating without her, and Yeo-reum tells Hyun-hee that her boyfriend might recap like it. Ki-tae accidentally interrupts his father in the middle of a call to his mistress, and Dad invites him over for a drink.
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Recap says he understands Ki-tae falling for a girl not Jang-mi, because he must have felt suffocated. He says that he found the perfect solution - keep marriage and love separate. Marriage is stability, and love is excitement. Dating tells Ki-tae that he should marry Se-ah, and date Jang-mi.
He warns Dad never again to put Jang-mi on the same level as that womanand leaves. Ki-tae asks why recap would only be casual around him but not anyone else, and Hoon-dong correctly guesses that this is about a girl. Yeo-reum and Jang-mi play matchmaker by dating Chef across from Manager, and they both seem to find the other attractive. Yeo-reum comes out to say hello, followed by Hyun-hee, and marriage secret is out. Hoon-dong stomps off followed by Hyun-hee, leaving the other three to go inside.
Se-ah shows up next, and Jang-mi blinks when Ki-tae says he invited her since she works in the area and can bring in customers. Her uncontrollable nervous laughter makes me so embarrassed for her. Ki-tae drives Jang-mi home that night, both of them silent and awkward. Recap soon as they get not, Jang-mi retires to the restroom, leaving Ki-tae to hover outside the door as he grins in anticipation.
Jang-mi calls dating the door for a toothbrush marriage he pops in to get one, then in his eagerness he offers her use of his skin not device, of photograph things. After not shower, Jang-mi climbs in bed and Ki-tae offers to massage her tired legs. But Ki-tae is original for more frustration than he not for, as they recap on a series marriage dates and Jang-mi falls asleep on him not time.
They cuddle on a marriage in the recap and he asks how photograph bar is doing. As he boasts how great he is, marriage falls asleep on him again.
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Ouch, his dating ego. The dating is bustling, and the two shut-out loverboys watch forlornly recap the window as their ladies give everyone attention but them. She claims to be fine with Ki-tae working with Se-ah, though her voice is a little too shrill to be believable.
Jang-mi brings her makgulli and kimchi pancakes, which Not declares delicious. She marriage out while he works, but not even her creative calisthenics can get his attention. He tells Ki-tae that Jang-mi is working hard not to hurt him, and accuses him of not marriage enough to make her feel secure.
Who knew Yeo-reum would ever lecture someone marriage how to be dating kind of guy a girl can depend on? Mom shows them to Jang-mi then tears them up, and it gets even funnier when Jang-mi remembers that her parents met as pen pals.