Know the percentages of different cts of your physical and mental state. Use the ancient technique of Kundli Matching, to help you choose the right kind of life partner. Understand the real motives that drive you to seek a particular friend. What was it that attracted you towards each other? What will help you keep your relationship strong?
It's something you have in common with them. Good luck :. I can't speak for other Cancer men, but I'd imagine there are a lot of us who read this page periodically even though we don't comment as much as you Scorpio ladies do. Just like in the relationship, you seem to know more about us than we do ourselves, so I'd imagine we're all keeping our mouths shut and just listen here lol. There is some very valuable information here though, so thank you to everyone who has offered tips and advice.
I'm tempted to go into detail about how amazing my Scorpio lady is. But she already knows and it would just give her more ammunition to expand on the many ways I suck by comparison. I do feel blessed to have her in my life though. Scorpio women are the best.
I am a Scorpio girl who currently has a "friends-with-benefits" relationship with a Cancer boy.
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How do I turn this fling into a real relationship? I am dating a Cancer man and believe me am so confuse. We make love and I mean he is great in bed but after the sex and all he is like a different man. He will tell me that he wants and care for me when I force it out of him sometime he make fell like am the best woman in the world and next time I don't know whether he remembers me or not. I really love him I do but am thinking about giving him a break.
He will buy me stuff if I ask him to but he will not just go and get a gift for me. Is this a typical Cancer man or is he playing me? I can understand why my Cancer man is so self centered am always thinking about him and he seem to only remember me when he's hard or his mother nature is calling he a great lover but sometime I want to just talk to him so I can know him better but he's always pushing me off.
Is this a typical Cancer man. All 3 signs just have that certain something, the "it" factor that all deep, emotionally sensitive, sensual, probing water symbols need. It's just that simple and just that complicated. I am a Cancer man that is currently falling for a Scorpio woman The Cancer man in question is someone that I went to school with almost 20 years ago. He emailed me and then immediately called me when I responded to ask me out.
We talked on the phone and texted for over a week before our actual date- he was out of town on vacation. Before our date he was texting me first thing every morning- and called frequently While on the date, he was very sweet, nervous and was constantly holding my hand, putting his arm around me and kissing me At home he did the same thing, but once it got late he was up and out of there He has texted me everyday- and has been very sweet, but has yet to make a move as to seeing me again.
I finally told him that I would like to see him again and he said that we would get together this week. I am just very confused.
I am a Scorpio and usually in control of relationships, but I am stumped. I can't read him I don't know what to say or do next I tried the whole ignoring him thing and he just ends up texting me even more I am not sure what to do. On a side note, he did tell me that he always wanted to ask me out in school and I was that girl that he always looked at and wished that he could be with I need to know what to do.
Do I pursue him? Do I leave it alone and let him come to me? Everything that I have read about Cancer men has proven true with him I am very loving and we would be the perfect couple if he would just commit a little I own a business and I am a very busy person so I have to plan He also says that he loves when I text him because he thinks that it is very sweet If Cancer men are so loving and caring, why doesn't he see that he is just not doing much?
I also need to know that someone cares about me and wants to be around me I am truly crazy about him and I just need some major advice on what to do next Im a Scorpio woman with a Caner man This website is great, most posts express exactly how Im feeling.
The Cancer man is slightly younger than me by 4 years and I feel like the immature girl asking him how he feels, because he says nothing.
But what I've learned from this website is Cancers need reassurance, but so do Scorpios. Before meeting this guy, I was a confident chick who could pick up any guy in the bar. Now Im insecure and don't want anyone else except for him and I have no idea how he feels :o! He makes love to me and has this way of looking into my eyes and holding me that makes me believe he cares very deeply about me.
He does little meaningful things that I love. For his birthday I got him the world cup soccer ball he wanted, he loved it but just left it at my place and still wont take it over to his place. And if I don't say anything we can go through a whole week and more without seeing each other.
This is very tiring and Im not sure how m much I would be pushing him if I told him I would like him to do more? How much can I express without scaring him off? All I know is that I have to be myself. I have been chatting with a Cancer man. I am not sure though if he is trying to impress me by bragging about his material possessions or basically he is just a plain and simple bragger?
Then he started to flirt a little with me and when I flirted back, nothing to heavy or tacky I can assure youhe made this really bitchy, disrespectful comment I haven't heard from him since, but I do find myself wondering about what he is really all about I am so madly in love with my Cancer man I am 25 and was married before in a very abusive marriage. I pretty much felt like giving up on love and here he came walking back into my life we went to high school together and had feelings for one another back then but never expressed it.
Once we met up again its been amazing everything is amazing the only difficult thing for us is the distance we live apart but that will soon change.
Cancer guys do yourself a favor if you and this Scorpio woman have a strong chemistry don't rush her to doing something that you would regret and just play it simple and see were things go from there and I was just reading your stories and I got to say wow and thanks for reading this.
I'm so confused with this Cancer Man I don't know which end is up. I'm a Scorpio woman very secure and understanding of his needs and respect for his career. We have known each other for a month and it seems like years. In a nutshell he's one of those people that are consumed with work and will get back with you when things die down.
This is what he has expressed what damaged his last relationship. Currently married, separated for over 2 years and same situation with me It's a 12 year age difference and I feel that I give him the attention that he desires and he expresses that 'I'm stuck with him and he is what I'm what he has been looking for. When I do get to speak with him I don't let him know that this is bothering me instead I listen to what he has to say and decipher if in fact he is being honest with me.
When I speak with him it's as if nothing has changed and the love he has for me is even more intense. Besides, I'm not trying to sound like her either. So we had a situation that he has offered to find me a car because my other is broke down and we are in another city.
When we depart each other after 3 weeks of anticipation we kiss our goodbyes and he says for me to call him in a couple hours so we can check on this car we were looking into. Knowing he has to get his crew back in order I knew he needed a little time anyway. Leave a text ate He will care for you but at the end of the day words are just words and if he comes with actions then is that not better then chatting shit.
I am a Scorpio woman who has been married to a Leo man for almost 17 years. Recently at a get-together I met a guy who attracted me instantly. I didn't know why this was happening to me because I have never in my life felt so drawn to anyone on my life.
After having conversation with him he told me he was a cancer.
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This is something I will have to work through in my head and in my heart as this has been an all consuming situation that won't let go of me.
I recently found him on facebook and now feel like a cheat. I am sick to my stomach most of the time and feel foolish because the immediate attraction may very well be one-sided. Leo's and Scorpio's aren't the best match and it's unfortunate. Im in love with a Cancer man I'm no longer with. We were friends for months before we started dating. We in actuality dated for 3 mths and just like that he walked outta my life. He had an attitude I did not wanna deal with.
I let him know my true feelings and always used caution when talking with him. I miss him. We connected on every level. I never experienced love like I did with him. He was what I prayed for and now it's gone. I constantly fight with myself on calling him, but I never do. I just think if it were meant to be it will be, but if its not then oh well.
My heart hurts. I have yet to be with anyone else because I know no one would make me feel the same. I don't know what to do, but I really want him back, his embrace, his kiss, his companionship, his loyalty, his funniness, his everything. A Cancerian needs time. You MUST be devoted to him He's insecure demeanor will always 'test' to see if you are. Its highly likely he, the Cancerian man, thinks the world of you as we don't often like to waste energy on people we weren't interested in and already imagines, fantasyland-like how life will be in the future.
Meaning, if for any reason he senses you are just not that in to him, he will project an aura ta seems like his not that into you too and downgrade his love for you - even if he loves you with all his heart. That's why you often see a struggle; one moment he is the No1 man in the world and the next he is cold - its just his way of protecting his soft feelings. Cancer doesn't enjoy being 2nd best; he doesn't like feeling inferior to anyone. You have to go out of your way Might seem like a task but in return, a decent Cancer show you the true meaning of being loyal and devoted.
Cancer, of course is moody by nature. Often causes of accelerating this moodiness is via feelings of jealousy, selfishness, or feelings of inferiority. Main thing to understand is that Cancer are givers, be it emotionally, physically etc But Cancers are also human after all and need something of 'equal' measure back too, but not in a stringent, orderly way. For example: if he gives you a massage, you don't have to give him one back, but why not cook his favorite meal to show reciprocation?
Because I am tired of wasting time with others I am a Scorpio woman involved in a new relationship with a Cancer man, and both of us are recovering from PTSD experiences mine from childhood sexual abuse and his from the gulf war.
The attraction was immediate, the silent understanding and empathy is at the forefront, and yet both of us are quiet about how we actually feel about each other. Both of us are typically emotionally guarded and yet when we're around one another we seem to heal through touch, however slight or intimate, and let our walls down. Still, we are only beginning to talk about our feelings, and he feels talking puts pressure on our relationship - so I try to keep my feelings-communications to a minimum, for when I feel it truly necessary to get something off my chest, or take a proverbial temperature of our relationship.
Being Scorpio, I'm highly analytical about intentions, and this runs my emotions high when I finally allow myself to "fall" for someone, as I am with him - and I find myself reigning myself in and writing rather than confronting him. I suppose this is healthy, but I don't want my stifling to become an issue later. We both have a push-first-pull-later way of handling our feelings, pushing the other person away to see their reaction testing our trust in them and then gauging our feelings based on how they react, and then finally beginning to invest if the reaction is what we want.
It's difficult operating in the such similar emotional bubbles though, but I also feel that sometimes a test of patience pays off in a lesson learned. At least that's what I'm hoping with this Cancer man. I adore him, and there's something magnetic that I can't deny no matter how far my self-defense mechanisms want to push him away, my heart wants to stick it out and reap the rewards. Im taking the big step of moving in with him this coming month.
I have to say most of the men who commented were bang ON!! I will say this. NO MAN has ever made me feel so loved yet so infuriated so intensely all in one! Although I will say the games are tiring.
I find im the one who always starts them being as insecure and jealous as I am. But I always notice his acts of kindness and he always shows his love so im back to feeling secure again. I am the hot and cold of this combo, so if you think your Cancerian is black and white stop and ask yourself maybe its not him maybe its me? I want to be showered with affection yet too much clinging makes me feel suffocated. Too much insecurity and I get tired of reassuring him all the time.
And cancers one tip sarcasm is in our nature don't take it seriously when we want you to know the truth we will tell you other then that jokes should be taken lightly not seriously. Anyway, just reading up on the whole thing, preparing the groundwork, seeing what to expect. Did not happen with her. AT ALL!! I know very little about her, few things like family situation and work and generalities like that, but it's just like akashic records don't be lazy, look it up!
Ladies, the Cancers are insecure, you ask us out, we go away, either physically or mentally, you will see it when it happens, eyes glaze over We examine why it happened, looking for the motive why would you say it first, before taking it at the face value, we basically over think everything!!!!
Absolutely stupid, I know, and by the time we do the computations, you are normally long gone, and we end up pining for the one that got away Took me ages to get over it, went out with Pisces for ages, we clicked but it just missed that final nail.
I kinda want to be led sometime, but by you deciding what you want out of the whole thing, that was the thing that drove me absolutely frakking INSANE with that Pisces, never knew if she was coming or going. I would say what I wanted to do, she said not gonna happen nothing kinky, she wasn't into it, just generallyI would ask her what she wanted to do, she never knew, or would change her mind.
Do NOT get me wrong, I am a sort of guy that gets up at AUleave the car 25 minutes away from the pizza place and walk there, then walk and drive all the way back home, very impulsive and not needing a plan, but it is absolutely infuriating to wait at home with my thumbs up my crack for someone to make up their mind. Sometimes I just need an hour to clear my head, especially after work, someone would say something harsh to me, it will ruin my day.
Last thing I want to do when I get back home is talk. I will sit down, watch a movie, get on PS3, or whatever, sort the sh! I learned that I tend to lash out when I am angry, and that is my way to deal with it, instead of hurting the beloved in any way, and saying things I should have said it to the d!
Worked in customer service, but nevermore!!! Society says one thing, your mind says the opposite Hard place. I am a Scorpio woman and before I say anything, this page is very insightful! I didn't initiate anything because I was in the middle of a long term relationship with an Aquarius big mistake. I don't know if I should be the first to tell him how I truly feel, if that would scare him away or if it will open him up?
I am a scoprio woman whoes crushed a Cancer my since my freshman year of highschool. I feel like he is too shy when we are overly aggressive and they know what they want and if they want u, eventually they will come to you but they like a challenge just like everyone does.
I had also written him a love not 2 yars ago, that was not the greatest thing to do. I definately know he loves my personality but he just got out of a weird relationship and probably still loves the bitch but I sincerely hope he realizes I am the right one because its so ironic ho badly we undersdtand each other although we are opposite we still see where one another is coming from and its so amazing. I hope he will wake up and realize I am the one I truley do.
I am a Scorpio woman who used to date a Cancer man. Lets just say this has been the most rocky relationship I had. At first he was amazing called everyday,saw him everyday.
But as A Scorpio Woman we are good at figuring things out. He was still in love with his ex and he keep giving me different stories saying he does not love her but I forgave him numerous times. Cancer men are very moody and on and off with there love. They can be very stcuk on the past and hold on to things such as still in love with his ex. He would do things thinking it was ok. He is a very tick for tat man. If he is hurt he will do and say anything to do the same.
I would leave numerous times and he would say he sorry he going to do better,please come back I need you. I finally left and never look back. Im soo into a Cancer man.
Of course I'm a Scorpio women. He's invlove with another right about now. Sometimes I get from him he'll tottally be into me and one day he'll be distance. Scared of rejection so I wont admit to him that I have a crush on him I talk to her every now and then a few days a week but I can't really tell how I am doin in this process, I may ask her to hang out with me and a few friends this weeknd to have a drnk but any tips any one can give me will begreatly appreciated thanks!!
What the F happened?! Still having issues! No man alive This man is driving me crazy he looks smiles waves at me all the time then seems moody I k now he wants me but I also know he wont come near because I am married any cancers out there with advice? As a Cancer male, my advice is to be bold with the Cancer guy you like. Don't be afraid of giving him that "Scorpio" stare, and make it a point to say hi and smile at him. Talk to him. In other words, you'll have to be the one to seriously let him know you mean business and you really like him.
Don't assume he wants nothing to do with you because you're married. If he feels as strongly for you as you do for him, he just "might" go for it. But he needs coaxing and validation from you first. Scorpio woman here, my ex husband of 5 years was a Cancer, we have two children, and I love him but he has a drug problem and has been in and out of jail, so I had to leave him because he only got worse and worse. I am currently "friends with benefits" with this Cancer guy who, we were friends for one year, dated last year for about months, I broke it off and started dating this Aquarius guy ugh, not a good match at all.
So now we've been talking again and this last week we've started hooking up again. I'm crazy about this Cancer, the way his skin and body feels, the way our sensuality meshes together When we dated before I think I put myself out there to him, letting him know my feelings for him, and he was sort of on the fence about it, probably because of our age difference 7 years, I'm 32 and he's The last time we were together, he said something to me along the lines of "I know other guys out there want you He immediately squeezed me tighter and seemed to like that answer, and the next morning he was in no hurry to go anywhere, just seemed really happy and content being there.
I would lay around with him all day just kissing him if I could!!! So now I can't get him off my mind. I'm moving closer to his neighborhood, we are going to be practically neighbors. I don't know what the future holds, or how comfortable he is in thinking of me in the future, I just want to enjoy what I have with him right now, and I know that after trying to date another, the chemistry is just toooo strong with him, and I would miss him if he left.
I just want to enjoy it right now for what it is, and let the mystery of life unfold in the future. I'm not afraid anymore, and if it doesn't work out, fine. I don't want to scare him off, but at some point I know my guard is going to come down especially in intimate moments and I am going to have to tell him how I feel about him. I've already told him I "love the way he feels".
What I really want to tell him is that "I love him". I am a True Blue Scorpio woman involved with a Cancer Man, we have known each other from a mutual circle of friends for 3 or more years, 6 months ago some magnetic force brought us together. He is teaching me how to trust again, and him in the bedroom, OMG!!!!!
What a wonderful connection, even post sex, we lay there and talk for hours on end. I have seen the mood swings, but as they say these 2 signs have a balance for each other, when the male Cancer is moody, it teached the female Scorpio how to be patient, trust, and give them space.
It is a perfect trade off, this the first Cancer I have been with and I am 49 years old. Just now deciding to read up on the compatability of the 2, and I must say, I will NOT let this one get away easily.
Not your typical Cancer man here. Just wanted to say, I never dated a Scorpio woman, though I wish I have. Just for the experience that everyone say is so "magical". I have talked to a few Scorpio women, the instant connection is there, but some where along the line I don't find them very interesting.
Most of the time, there isn't that common activity we share. Though, I really appreciate the debates we shared. I envy some of the stories here, because I have never experienced it. So I just wanted to say, I am still hopeful to find that Scorpio woman that can enjoy my life with. Until then, I will keep reading the great stories. To the woman that is married to the Gemini husband but madly in love with the Cancer guy, please do what is right.
Nothing good can come from doing wrong. Remember, it was that Gemini who put that ring on your finger and has dedicated the rest of his life to you.
Don't throw it away because of your selfishness. The Cancer friend you speak of, I know him because I am a Cancer male. This thread describes to a T. We are passionate, and very deep.
We can tell what you're thinking just by looking at you. Your eyes will never lie to us, but we can also be very selfish. This Cancer man knows you are married, but he still is there.
No decent man would tread on another man's wife. That is a bad quality to possess. Get rid of that Cancer male before you ruin your marriage and regret it for the rest of your life.
I've done this to a woman before. I abused the gifts a Cancer male possesses to gain access to woman who was married. It was the wrong thing to do. I knew I was not going to marry her, for what man with sense marry a woman who cheat on her husband? I never took her seriously, and I took advantage of her sexually, financially, and many other ways. I was wrong and regret what I did. Do the right thing I am a Scorpio girl and I was going out with this Cancer for 8 months I really need to kno I had never seen her before until that day, it was like a nice surprise.
I wasnt even sure she would be there, so I peeked around the corner and she immediately smiled and invited me in. I passed out and woke up a little later. I am a Scorpio woman in a serious relationship with a Cancer man. Although all of the things I have read are very true about the Scorpio woman and Cancer man relationships, I have to say that it isn't only our sun signs the only signs that are commonly known that determine how the relationship was, is, or could be.
You have to take into account the astrological birth charts to go further in depth with the particular connection. Such as, the prominent planets of your birth chart, the cts of the planets, and the houses they are in. You also have an ascendant which is a BIG part of your astrological makeup.
I'll use an example,my relationship. Me and my boyfriend's sun signs are very compatible Scorpio and Cancerbut our ascendant's aren't his; Sagittarius, mine; Virgo. However, my point is you shouldn't ONLY look at the sun signs, there is much much more to look at. You don't have to be a particular sign to love a certain way.
And I could go on an on, but I think I've already said enough. We met just over a year ago and the connection was there straight away, I just couldn't make out what it was. I wasn't interested at all at first, my brains was telling me not to go for a 15 yrs older, married man but he was determined to make it work. He was the sweetest, most caring man, made me feel on the top of the world, he became my family, my best lover ever, my everything.
We had the best time no matter what we decided to do. It took me a few months to realise I was head over heels and simultaneously anything that seemed an obstacle seemed to disappeared. I knew his marriage was a mistake and without hope for rebuilding so I wasn't too worried, but it surprised me he never got divorced.
Unfortunately a couple of months after we started being a couple properly he told me he actually had 2 kids. He said he anticipated I would leave him so he couldn't get himself together to tell me, however once we started talking about moving in, there was no other way. I asked him about any kids beforehand, the answer was always a no. It was a shock but I decided to stick around but made it clear the situation had to be resolved and promptly scorpio women are seriously unpatient by the way.
Ever since then it's been getting worse. My man is very close with his children, seems that much closer than their mother she's from a totally different culture and the kids have been raised in the UK same as their dad.
I read cancers are very protective about their family - he's a great example. His wife is a very difficult person and will do her best to make things hard especially when kids are involved. They spoke about the divorce and decided to agree on separation at first. However my Crab is so stressed and scared of losing the kids there hasn't been substantial progress.
I know he loves me and he does get jealous. He also gets grumpy and sometimes hurtful but only when he feels the access to his children is under threat. We moved in together but he lasted 2. I got to say that period was incredibly stressful to me to as I felt he blamed me for him not being able to be with the kids.
I couldn't go on like this so we made agreements: "By Friday I'll move back in to ours and things will be 'sorted' as in arrangements about seeing the kids will be put in place and he'll be 'mentally' ok to do it ", "by Monday it'll have been sorted". My love keeps telling me we will get married and run the business together and that he can see it and knows it. It hasn't been easy cause he kept coming back every couple of days trying to talk, even when I ignored him.
Yesterday he waited for me on the street, I broke down in tears. He thought I was handling it quite well but that made him realise I wasn't at all.
So now next time I see him it'll be when he's pulled over in front of my door with his stuff in the car, ready to spend the rest of his life with me Will it ever happen though?
I agree that Cancer men need assurance and I feel my one has been given more than enough of love and affection to be sure of my love. I can't imagine my life without him and I feel he would struggle without me. But time will show - seems that love is not always enough. Scorpio woman, Cancer man I'm a Scorpio woman and my cancerman just broke up with ms because I was overly jealouse, in secure and he got tired of. I'm just wondering if he's ever going to come back to me?
Or when they say it's over does it mean it's really over? What should I do to get him back? Well I am a Scorpio woman who is very attracted to a Cancer man. Him and I have been acting like we've been dating since the beginning of the semester and he's fooled around with a couple other girls behind my back and he's apologized and I forgave him. Some days he'll be very touchy and flirty with me and other days he's very stand offish. Him and I have had conversations about being together and he says he wants to be with me but theres something thats holding him back and he doesn't know why.
He clearly knows I like him and want to be with him and I've showed it to him in more than one way on multiple occasions. We both are each others poison its like we can't stop talking to each other. I've tried getting away from him and trying to find someone else but he always comes back and says he misses me and wants to be with just me.
If there are any Cancer men out there who can please help me that would be greatly appreciated! Should I just give up or should I keep trying? Scorpio woman here, I am a young university student and I am heavily involved with my academics and extracurriculars, but I do party a lot as well.
I can see now what all you previously meant by leading a very busy life, and why that may seem intimidating to a cancerian male. I have never actually come in contact with one before, and usually when I go out with my girlfriends we meet guys all the time, but rarely do I find one that's not boring and eventually, unbearable. I have never felt this way before. I have been debating for days, whether I should message him again, and initiate something. I am so attracted to him, its not even funny, and even though I only met him once, I can't stop thinking about him.
I met my Cancer man when he was living with this girl he said she was his room mate and that she was dating her lesbian friend and he was sleeping on the floor about 3 mths of knowing each other he moved out and in with me we dated for two years and I loved everything about him except his controlling ways, and his lies we broke up cuz I felt he was cheating on me.
I still love him with all my heart but I know that he will never be what I want and he will always lie to get what he wants i. I fell in love with a Cancer man in the last 7 months, suddenly he disappear he is not answering my calls and not sending me messages and if I am sending him he is not replying?
I'm a Cancer man. I sooo want a Scorpio woman.
I'm not clingy or possesive. I have no problem making the first move. How can I attract you Scorpio woman? Where are you? Cancer moonchild here pining for a particular Scorpio woman. How can I keep her attention? I adore her.
Dealing with the same issue differently while dating is a unique trait between a Cancer man and Scorpio woman. Scorpios lead a more vehement life as compared to the Cancers. It is likely to see a Cancer zodiac man get highly emotional in a relationship and Scorpio women personalities are best known for keeping their feelings hidden. Jun 13, Whether a mere friendship or something more, a relationship between a Cancer man and Scorpio woman is capable of being an intense and beautiful thing. As both Scorpio and Cancer are water signs, they can mesh quite well together overall, with enough differences to keep relationships exciting and explorative. The Scorpio woman will be the one who holds the majority of the power in this relationship, as the Cancer man may be hesitant to take the upper hand. The Cancer man will likely lean on the Scorpio woman for a lot of emotional support, and she will be willing to give it to him. Upon meeting, the Scorpio woman might think the Cancer man is weak%(93).
She still dates other guys though. I keep thinking of ways to win her over, but she dosn't seem interested. Am I just wasting my time or should I be more subtle? Or have the most cash? I could really love a Scorpio woman. But do they love back or just sting you? Last year around November I went to practice at a school that I've never been to. Got a few "woo," claps here and there. Then as I slowly pant and walked out for air. A girl walks up to me; turns out she was a Scorpio and I just happen to be Cancer.
One thing led to another I ended up liking her.
Apologise, scorpio dating cancer man consider
Now, I just haven't grown confidence to talk to her I don't know what to do? Days later during class her birthday I just wrote on a sheet of paper and everytime I wrote her name I smile and get jittery neck down.
I write her name on my bathroom walls. Is this normal? What do I do? I am a Scorpio woman and have been with a Cancer man for 5 months. Immediate sexual chemistry, intimacy and closeness mixed with lip biting intensity in the bedroom; a good balance of adoration and feisty sexual desires.
We love each other, but I feel I constantly need more reassurance even though he tells me and shows his affection deeply. Together we are great friends, but apart, I feel he needs to call and text more, he is too laid back and it confuses me I suppose this could be the moody nature? Cancers need to be reached out to at times, if I feel insecure I tell him and he is understanding. When it comes to sex, I initiate most of the time but then its great. Sometimes its a case of my Cancer being too chilled out and my fiesty side needs him to repeat more of the 'clingy crab' ways!
An amazing lover and close friend. I feel that with open communication and understanding, I could be with him for a lifetime. I need to wo rk on my possesive, insecure ways and learn that he is trustworthy while he needs to reassure me more. Scorpios are passionate and powerful and within an arguement can make the Cancer crab retreat to a shell Let the Cancer settle you while you encourage him to come out of his shell.
I am still unsure about things, but thats due to my own insecurities; Cancer will nuture this at his best but don't always expect them to be at your beck and call when you need affection. In their presense, the affection and prolonging looks run deep and love is escalating.
When apart, its seems to disappear on my cancers behalf. Both signs need to learn to love each other's time spent together and appreciate space apart just as much. I am Cancer guy and am currently in shock reading most of the experiences here in the site. I could almost see my love life in most of the posts.
I met this "Scorpio" lady at my workplace and from the day one, I had this strange attraction towards her. I am a shy guy, always had problems keeping the eye contact with women. But with this lady, I get lost in her magical eyes, could look into her eyes for minutes and always felt strong connection. She blushes, smiles and does reciprocate most of the times. I kept on expressing my liking for her indirectly but in very obvious ways.
She is not stopping me but at the same time, she is not giving a obvious signal to proceed further. I came to know that, she had a painful breakup before and Whenever I mention about love, she indirectly hints me of the pain. I don't know what to do this woman.
She is on my mind all the time and I feel shes the one. Any advice? I'm a Cancerian man who recently started to date a Scorpio woman. I had no idea at first what this meant, but I can say without a doubt I am attracted to her in a way I can't define. Forget magnetism, I feel more like a satellite in a decaying orbit.
Round and round I go yet inevitably drawing closer and closer. Do I land safely or crash and burn? Ahhh the dilemma Being a Cancer male isn't easy, sure I'm easily able to charm people, but how do I know when it's 'safe' to reach out?
I don't, I want to, more than I want to breathe sometimes.
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But, always searching for the guarantees in life can cause me to miss things I otherwise wouldn't if only I had just stretched out the claw and grabbed hold a little sooner. Oh and how I hate to lose, be it money, love, that promotion whatever' Crabs don't like being second fiddler. On reaching out this is the part where I think the sign is most misunderstood. I reach out plenty, just not in the typical sense. A crabs preferred method of approach is sideways.
Just because you don't see me coming doesn't mean I'm not drawing closer and closer trying to get those big pinchers in range to get a grip on the object of my desire. My attention will always be on you, even when you think I'm off in space and I'll stop moving if you look at me funny.
But I've got my eyes on the prize and will stop at nothing to keep moving sideways until I bump into you or you try and get away. This is the tricky part, sometimes crabs need you to pull away so there is a fear of losing you, but that ONLY works if I'm close enough to grab on in the first place.
Too soon and I'll just crawl back to my rock and dwell on the fact that you got away. Nonetheless I do reach out, but by gesture. The acts of an interested male Cancer will light the path of his intentions, wishes, dreams, whatever' but you have to clue in to these gestures and green light me or I will pull back and continue to wait for my flashing neon sign of?
Money of course not being the true concern, but instead my heart. I would literally buy Love Insurance if I could just to avoid the ridiculously strong pain of giving my love and it not being reciprocated. I don't even think it's rejection that I fear as much as my love not being returned with the same intensity I feel. I don't need words though, I need presence. Be there for the crab and don't give him any reason to doubt your love for him and he'll be happy and love you more than anything or anyone else is capable of.
This is all just my opinion based on my feelings and experience and lots of years of reflection. I am really looking forward to getting to know this Scorpio woman and am already moving sideways while dreaming about the future potential. Here's to hoping for a 'green light'. I'm a 32 year old Scorpio woman who has been with a Cancer man for 11 years. It's been pleasant and safe and our sex is good but too many times I get bored. He's a really amazing person and has all of the qualities I seek but he doesn't turn my crank like a Sag does which is an emotional train wreck or another Scorpio.
I really feel robbed of intensity and feel that I'm the stronger one in the relationship - he's more fragile, which I'm not attracted to. I want a man to take charge but be really respectful about it. A strong person who know how to love deeply. Sometimes Cancers are just 'too compliant'. The first time I saw her I said this is the one, looking at her eyes for the first time, all what I wanted in soul mate I could read it clearly in her stunning eyes and you have that feeling hey I know this girl.
I never felt so happy in my life, it was unreal, it's some kind of emotional bond, When we were together I always knew what she want, even though She was very good at hiding her feeling, I just have to look at her eyes to know what she wanted. Even after we split, in couple of occasions I have this strong feeling towards her, first time I found out we were barely miles apart, second time I find out that she had a baby about 6 days earlier.
I'm a 29 year old Cancer man. Most of you Scorpio women seem to have the same problem except the mistress - find an unmarried man who won't play you; and the girl who got dumped - the Cancer man doesn't want to dump a girl unless he is truly truly over her.
We are really very simple: we are horrible at coming up with something to do, since most of the things we like to do are by ourselves. So, if you really want us, then invite us on a date somewhere we can be alonebut let us make the moves on you - we are still men, after all. If you are scared to ask a man out, then make it sound like it isn't a date.
That shouldn't be too hard for you crafty Scorpios. I guarantee that if he likes you, and you give him those eyes, once you two are alone, he will put the moves on you. One more thing, and this is important: make sure you reserve a big chunk of time for him on this first date, or he will not take you seriously.
The younger he is, the longer the first date sh ould be. He has to know that you like him, as others have commented before me. I hope this helps you. I am a Scorpio woman married to a Cancer man. When we first met I thought it would be like every other 'relationship' I had - boring.
Always before I felt that I was dominant and had complete control, I had always been looking for a man to take control. Not only did I fall madly in love which has never happened to me before but he treated me with passion, desire, excitement and to be honest at times contempt, which just made me want him more.
The sex is still amazing after 9 years, and although I am of a completely sexual and dirty nature, he is prepared to keep up with me every step of the way.
Funnily enough, I have two other men that are or have been part of my sexual fantasies, both are cancer, and I am deeply attracted to them. One is a work colleague and another the brother of my best friend, but the attraction is quite distracting! I will never go there out of my deep loyalty to my husband, the first man to stand up to me and lay down the law lol, but have to say that my one big turn on seems to be a Cancer man. I met him randomly, while doing some community work.
We struck up a conversation and kept bumping into one another in the streets. The instant connection was organic and amazing. When we spoke to one another, his eyes and body language would scream, he was interested in me. I remember I was walking pass him while he was talking to someone and saw him watching me as I was walking away.
We kept in touch through email and recently through text, facebook and phone. However, we never talked about personal things. I am very guarded and I can tell he is as well or just not that into me. Either way, He is a good connect to have, since we work in the same field. When he talks, it sounds like he talking in circles or in a very roundabout away.
I have play 20 questions to get the answer I was looking for. I am very direct and this frustrates me. I am trying to slowly but strategically make my way in, without get ting too involved too fast. I am a scorpio, we know more you think. I am a Scorpio woman who was intially interested in this Cancer man. I lost some attraction towards him, because he was closed. We are very business like to one another.
Scorpio Woman And Cancer Man Relationship - Pros Even though they share the same ruling element, the female scorpion is more social than the male crab. The Scorpio woman is at the center of attention without even trying, and the Cancer man will notice her first since he is standing outside of the crowd. Scorpio Woman Dating Cancer Man. The dating period of this relationship will lay the groundwork for what's to come in the future. Should they work out the nuances now, they are in for a lifetime of happiness and harmony. The chemistry between these two zodiac signs is affected by several factors. Their energy is benjamingaleschreck.com: Anmol Raina. I am currently dating a Cancer man and I am a Scorpio woman and I am so amazed at these stories Im reading they are so true indeed a Cancer man can one minute make you feel like you are the only woman in the world for him and then the next your wondering if he knows you exist it's just weird but I do truly like him and hope that we can work long term.
He wants to bring me on board with what he doing, but I am catious. I am very observant, analytical,probing and sensetive to people's responses. I feel he is just wants me around, so he can pick my brain for ideas. I am a very intelligent, innovative and creative person. Am always brimming with ideas! However, I can tell he is the type to take someone's idea and stamp his name on it. I like him, but I will never allow myself to be used.
I play my part, as a regualr female. However, little to his surprise I am no typical woman. All I have to say is: hiliary clinton is a powerful scorpio!
I am a Scorpio woman girl only 24 dating a craby man boy 27 for 3 yrs now. OMG it has been a roller coaster he's the best guy I have ever been with so intense were both deeply emotional. He's admitted to me being the only girl he's ever loved 1 in 6 after about 3 months I was DONE and pretty much praposed :' he said no :' heart breaking for both of us.
Apr 22, Important traits of a Cancer man in relation to a Scorpio woman A Cancer man is sentimental, vulnerable, protective of his family, very responsible, and light-hearted. He loves to give and receive help. He can be demanding with others, though, and he will expect to receive the same amount of respect that he benjamingaleschreck.com: Cynthia Thinnes. Cancer & Scorpio Sexual & Intimacy Compatibility The sign of Scorpio is associated with death and all kinds of bad things, but all of their maliciousness comes from their emotional and sexual repression. Cancer can usually understand the need of their Scorpio partner to express their deepest, darkest emotions in their sex life. Jul 02, Scorpio man, Cancer woman: Dating and early stages of the relationship In many cases, a Scorpio man and a Cancer woman will fall in love at first sight. Both are passionate and like to experience strong emotions in intimacy. With a little mutual understanding, this can be a relationship that lasts benjamingaleschreck.com: Cynthia Thinnes.
Any way he is moody as hell and angry he's very critical and I have enduger psychological hell were both realists and that seems to be what has gotten us this far besides how we show love to eachother. He hates me and my mind but still you can see the passion and he comes around reguardless of what he thinks of me. He can go weeks without talking to me and never talked about his feelings that's what got us into a mess.
Getting him to tell me in a way how he feelt about me wAs the worst thing to have happen. It's a ride it out till someone moves thing. My 'heart' hates it but in reality I don't seem to mind I know I'll miss him but he won't marry me He doesn't seem to be ready for kids and I already two. I could do with 6 more : I wish he weren't so smart and I wish I could start agreeing with him. Sometimes I think his actions are one big defensive ploy in direct contrast to what he feels.
He is afraid of loving eturnaly and to be honest so am I. I consider myself a true blue Scorpio woman and im in love with a true blue cancer. We met 2 years ago. This might sound chezzy but when I first saw him everything was in slow motion. I noticed everything about him I actually set back and was like wow.
Me being the person who I am I never do that but I was like damn who is that. But I didn't want to talk to him because I was invovled with somebody else at the time and im not that type of woman. So one day he was outside of my house playing basketball with my little brother and I guess my boyfriend at the time was saying how he could play basketball ball better then him so being the cocky man the Cancer is he said well lets play one on one and if I win I get to take you're woman out on a date.
Then they started playing ball and all I remember is him saying tell you're girl to get ready and shotting the winning shot behind his back I was like daaaammmnnnn!!! Me and that guy broke up. So one day my brother comes in my room and says oh boy wanr you're number I gave it to him.
That night he called and we talked all night. But we fought constantly. And im thinking did I do something wrong. But we would spend all day talking kissing and just spending Q. Then we jus stopped I assumed it was because I was moving to go to school. We still saw each other every now and again but I found out that he had a new girlfriend because he had a profile picture of them together. It felt like a truck ran into me. My heart instantly stopped.
So I called him and he told me straight and I couldnt talk to him anymore and I hung up he called me back and we talked I tried to play it off that wasnt hurt but the whole time I was on the phone with him I couldnt breath.
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But we still remained friend and I moved away. But every time I came back in town he wanted to see me girlfriend or not and of course I want to see him. Even though were not together we still get into it and I would stop talkin to him and he would always contact me and say lets stop fighting and we would instantly become friends again like nothing every happened. But now im moving backing and he keep telling me how excited he is about me coming back but when I try to talj to him he shuts down.
After reading all these wonderful stories.
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I makes me think that I have a chance or rekindling something we had in the past. I never stopped caring for him and I think he never stopped caring for me and I would love to pursue this relationship with him. But I don't know im so confused I want him one minute then the next I dont.
Help please. Cancer men are idiots. They are revengeful, unforgiving and irritating. The only good thing about them are their hugs. Nothing else. They are strong liars but weak men. Their communication is very good, for as long as emotions are not the main theme of a conversation. The depth they both have, although it might not be visible at first in Cancer partner, makes them able to talk about anything at all.
In the case when Cancer wants to run from negative experiences and Scorpio from their emotions, they could have trouble forming a relationship at all.
Still, this is a very rare scenario and even if they have these tendencies, they will probably help each other deal with them and give each other the exact mental stimulation they both need.
This is a tricky territory for a couple like this one. Cancer lives buried in their emotions, positive or negative, capable of using them in their everyday routine as an incorporated part of their life.
Scorpio can have trouble understanding how this works exactly, because they have a tendency to dismiss emotions, thinking that this is the only way to reach a certain goal.
The middle ground they need to find is a place where they are both free to follow these needs. Emotions have to be a way of living, as much as they can interfere with our goals. Both of these partners need to learn to lose control, as well as gain it again, in order to be able to let things flow and change in the way they are supposed to.
Cancer values their inner peace and wants a stable life with a family they can rely on. Scorpio represents change and values it most of all, even if they are not fully aware of this. It can be difficult for these partners to coordinate their personalities if they are both not flexible enough to understand their differences and the depth each of them has behind these superficial needs. Scorpio can fear emotion to the point of agony and if Cancer recognizes this, they will be able to approach them in the best way possible and discover their true need for security and emotional balance.
They have to share emotions and protect their loved ones - Cancer due to their motherly need to protect people they love, and Scorpio in order to set good boundaries on what they think is right. If they create their own little world, they can be found in any situation together, dealing with things as one being. When they find an emotional link, they can go very deep in search of true love, and unite on a level that is unreachable for other zodiac signs.
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